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Are you ready to go down the rabbit hole? To visit a surreal world, where black is white and white is carrots?

A friend, Metacognician in Shanghai, describes the situation as follows: “Life is more absurd than movies. I've gone down the rabbit hole too, when it just becomes more and more strange and you wonder how that all is supposed to make sense.” I asked him if I should just embrace it. He answered, “Why should you ... change the universe?”

It started with a psychotic named Jim Kiraly who resides, we think, at 6329 Twinberry Circle, Avila Beach, California.

Jim Kiraly is a respected citizen. A churchgoer. A Vice President of Transamerica Corporation. And a violent abuser who tried to use an emergency anti-violence measure, one intended to protect battered women, to stop his victim in a wheelchair from writing a book.

Concise enough? :)

For attorneys: Jim Kiraly filed for CLETS against his son and victim, who lived 200 miles away, did not own a car, and was in a wheelchair. His son and victim was not asked to end communications. Jim had no (zero) specific and relevant allegations that were not perjury. But he turned down repeated offers of no-contact and a signed stipulation that gave him everything but CLETS. He insisted on CLETS if his victim ever once “discussed” him with third parties.

In the end, Jim Kiraly signed an agreement far weaker than the ones he'd been offered.

A review of Court paperwork and other materials will tend to confirm that Jim and other parties, including attorneys on all sides, committed multiple felonies, crimes, and faux pas. :P

The word “abuser” is stated here publicly and without equivocation. A formal offer is hereby made to reaffirm the word in writing and under oath. Attorneys will understand the significance of the point. In short, there is little terror of a threatened defamation suit on this side. Actually, we feel that such a suit will fit nicely up Jim Kiraly's abuser ass.

Jim has one son, Ken Kiraly, who invented the Amazon Kindle and is one of the leads at Amazon's secret Lab126. Another son, Tom Kiraly is one of the leads, a Vice President-CFO type, at medical insurance firms, including one of the largest, Humana Corporation.

These people and some of the biggest names in Silicon Valley legal circles have committed or are involved in multiple crimes.

For the next decade or two, we're going to explore the crimes that these people committed, the motivations and the denial involved, the background and histories that led each person to make the choices that they did, and ways to build upon what happened and move towards positive societal goals.

There's plenty to go over. These people committed or were involved in: Spousal abuse, child abuse, DDOS (a highly prosecutable violation of CFAA), extortion, perjury, conspiracy to commit perjury (a possible felony), false police reports, conspiracy to file false police reports (a possible felony), unlawful threats, barratry, defamation, malpractice, civil harassment, criminal harassment, abuse of process, and violations of SCCBA Professional Standards.

The point was to force Jim's oldest son and victim, me, to sign a gag order. I was in a wheelchair. I'd never made a single inappropriate threat against my abuser. I wasn't even asked to not to call anybody. But Jim threatened to put me in a violence database unless I agreed never to write about him.

I won the right to write, but I lost my home of 25 years, most of my possessions, my chances for retirement, everything. Everything but a realization.

I can make a difference. I can conduct research for legitimate and reasonable purposes, document what happened, and analyze the choices of the people involved:

Maggie told me that she didn't know what she could say to me about what happened. However, we have decades to work it out. It will be productive. I'd like to direct the attention of attorneys and other parties to the:

Legitimate and Reasonable Purposes List

Questions or comments are welcome. For technical notes and disclaimers, click here.

Free Downloads

The current free ebook is located at this link:

For details about the ebook, click here.

The point? “The story is already out there, idiots. Keep it up and I'll demonstrate how something known as decentralized distribution works.”


Tuesday 2012-12-04 — Takedown of Takedown

121204. Michael Bonetto of Hoge Fenton has raised multiple issues related to my websites. One issue seems especially odd. In a letter to my attorney, Michael said:

“While I do not make that a condition, as a matter of professional courtesy, myself and my firm would appreciate if you would urge your client to leave us out of the fray and at least take down the websites which clearly [sic] the likeness of members of our firm.”

But, as of the current date, there are no pictures of Michael or Hoge Fenton employees on my websites. Just links to Michael's own website. In short, Michael seems to be complaining that his own website has a picture of him.

Michael is not presently demanding that I remove his photo from his website. That's good as, if he doesn't like his picture, he should edit his site himself. But Michael has apparently said that he wishes to “do something” about my own sites and/or about me in general. As a related note, I am not presently beloved at Hoge Fenton.

And Michael included a demand for takedown of content inside a document that's linked below. An important document that he's trying to get removed. So he's trying to takedown a takedown.

Michael says this about the document: “I also request that your client remove the link to confidential documents and intellectual property prepared by our office for purposes of settlement.”

The document in question concerns me, was prepared for me to review, and I never agreed to treat it as confidential. I don't consider it confidential, but the legal issues involved need to be looked at. I posted the document for two reasons:

1. I wanted to document something known as Abuse of Process from beginning to end. A situation where an obsessive compulsive man with emotional difficulties, somebody who had been physically violent in the past, initiated a fraudulent CLETS action against a former victim to slow down research related to the writing of a book.

The man in question was James Kiraly, former Vice President of Transamerica and my father. I am Robert Kiraly. The book was my project.

2. I feel that the controversial document which Michael Bonetto is seeking to take down is evidence of what the Kiraly Cases are all about. Read it carefully and note the focus on third parties, including the general public as suggested by the website demand.

James Kiraly is concerned that I may speak to third parties about his past. The document proposes that I be charged thousands of dollars if I talk to people.

Note: The proposed financial penalty for discussing abuse committed by James Kiraly has now been dropped. Possibly because I posted Michael's attempt to do this.

Ironically, I never intended to focus on what James had done. The book was to be a positive work about people and relationships in general. James's actions have left me little choice in the matter, though. Our lives, those of the Kiraly Family, are public now.

I don't know how long I'll be able to keep the document up. But it's here for now if people are curious. Get it while you can. To read or download the PDF version, click here. For a web page version of the PDF, click here instead.