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Are you ready to go down the rabbit hole? To visit a surreal world, where black is white and white is carrots?

A friend, Metacognician in Shanghai, describes the situation as follows: “Life is more absurd than movies. I've gone down the rabbit hole too, when it just becomes more and more strange and you wonder how that all is supposed to make sense.” I asked him if I should just embrace it. He answered, “Why should you ... change the universe?”

It started with a psychotic named Jim Kiraly who resides, we think, at 6329 Twinberry Circle, Avila Beach, California.

Jim Kiraly is a respected citizen. A churchgoer. A Vice President of Transamerica Corporation. And a violent abuser who tried to use an emergency anti-violence measure, one intended to protect battered women, to stop his victim in a wheelchair from writing a book.

Concise enough? :)

For attorneys: Jim Kiraly filed for CLETS against his son and victim, who lived 200 miles away, did not own a car, and was in a wheelchair. His son and victim was not asked to end communications. Jim had no (zero) specific and relevant allegations that were not perjury. But he turned down repeated offers of no-contact and a signed stipulation that gave him everything but CLETS. He insisted on CLETS if his victim ever once “discussed” him with third parties.

In the end, Jim Kiraly signed an agreement far weaker than the ones he'd been offered.

A review of Court paperwork and other materials will tend to confirm that Jim and other parties, including attorneys on all sides, committed multiple felonies, crimes, and faux pas. :P

The word “abuser” is stated here publicly and without equivocation. A formal offer is hereby made to reaffirm the word in writing and under oath. Attorneys will understand the significance of the point. In short, there is little terror of a threatened defamation suit on this side. Actually, we feel that such a suit will fit nicely up Jim Kiraly's abuser ass.

Jim has one son, Ken Kiraly, who invented the Amazon Kindle and is one of the leads at Amazon's secret Lab126. Another son, Tom Kiraly is one of the leads, a Vice President-CFO type, at medical insurance firms, including one of the largest, Humana Corporation.

These people and some of the biggest names in Silicon Valley legal circles have committed or are involved in multiple crimes.

For the next decade or two, we're going to explore the crimes that these people committed, the motivations and the denial involved, the background and histories that led each person to make the choices that they did, and ways to build upon what happened and move towards positive societal goals.

There's plenty to go over. These people committed or were involved in: Spousal abuse, child abuse, DDOS (a highly prosecutable violation of CFAA), extortion, perjury, conspiracy to commit perjury (a possible felony), false police reports, conspiracy to file false police reports (a possible felony), unlawful threats, barratry, defamation, malpractice, civil harassment, criminal harassment, abuse of process, and violations of SCCBA Professional Standards.

The point was to force Jim's oldest son and victim, me, to sign a gag order. I was in a wheelchair. I'd never made a single inappropriate threat against my abuser. I wasn't even asked to not to call anybody. But Jim threatened to put me in a violence database unless I agreed never to write about him.

I won the right to write, but I lost my home of 25 years, most of my possessions, my chances for retirement, everything. Everything but a realization.

I can make a difference. I can conduct research for legitimate and reasonable purposes, document what happened, and analyze the choices of the people involved:

Maggie told me that she didn't know what she could say to me about what happened. However, we have decades to work it out. It will be productive. I'd like to direct the attention of attorneys and other parties to the:

Legitimate and Reasonable Purposes List

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The point? “The story is already out there, idiots. Keep it up and I'll demonstrate how something known as decentralized distribution works.”


Saturday 2012-11-24 — Communication

121124. I had two conversations on Saturday night that went very differently.

One friend expressed concern about a relationship that he was in. We talked about it for a while and he said this was helpful. Here's what I said. This was written extemporaneously and has only been edited lightly.

It's odd that I'm writing pieces like the following on the fly. LittleCoder might have done it. But not the person who was there in-between:

You should express
Fact you're feeling commitment
Wish to know how she feels
If she feels
you are a date
and not a mate
You will need to end it

There is no small way
To ask
I love you
Is it possible you love me
You perhaps would not use the word
It is loaded

You would find a way
To have the discussion
Calmly and find out
Without a shout
Where this is headed

Most women, by the way
Love talks about relationships
Men don't do this
Charlie did
You will
Most U.S. men do not
It is a good thing to do
It is not bad

Tell your girl
It is on your mind
This is the only way to exorcise it
You are feeling stronger
You wish to know
Put aside deep feelings if you can
Find the words to say

I'd like to talk about our dates
Where things are headed
If she is surprised or dismayed
You have your answer
Must cut back without anger
Or overt sadness

You can handle this I think
Will be less distressed
If you proceed
Gently as I know you can
These are my thoughts
on the matter
Proceed before your psyche is in
a tatter

Talk to the girl
Give her a rose
Not to seduce but to compose
Speak gently

If it doesn't work
She will remember you
in the future
not as a problem
but as something amazing

Somebody who cared about her
Asked for nothing
Because that is what you will do
You will ask for nothing
But to respond to her feelings

This is unselfish
It is all right

But Bacon Bits spoke to me just half an hour later and that didn't go well. He was concerned:

<baconbits> I was just wondering, is your health ok, I know you tend to get tired around now... this might sound rude but you are old... I don't think you explained this to me yet, well why you get tired around now.

I started to explain things. Ran into a problem.

I don't perceive things the way you do; most of you. Or speak the same way. If I speak impulsively, as with you, the results are unpredictable and often regrettable. That part is the same. But if I pause to think, and to speak after thinking, thoughts are sometimes 3D; constructs that are an indivisble whole.

They aren't lines. They are spheres.

If I try to get the spheres into the tangible world where you can perceive them, it takes time. But you have no patience with me. And after half a century, including the Kiraly Cases which are partly about this issue, I have less patience with you.

On this occasion, I tried to communicate with Bacon Bits but I was not successful. This is how it went with him and how it goes for me some of the time:

<baconbits> alright, will this finally spill the beans... when talking to you you seemed to have beat around the bush before, so I don't understand much... I'm sorry, it's just I don't understand much because you haven't explained much...

My response was abrupt. I said that I'd been patient with him in the past and he should be patient with me now. I regretted saying this even as I said it. I ended the discussion. I think I fell asleep immediately afterwards.